Meera — The Incarnation of Devotion
Birth of Meerabai -
Meerabai was born in 1498 into a Rajput royal family in Kudki, Pali district, Rajasthan, she spent her childhood in Merta, Rajasthan. Her mother died when she was four or five years old. Her father, Ratan Singh, was the second son of Rao Duda Ji, a descendent of Rao Jodha Ji Rathor, the founder of Jodhpur. She spent her childhood mostly in his grandfather’s house. As customary with royal families, her education included knowledge of scriptures, music, archery, fencing, horse riding and driving chariots. She was also trained to wield weapons in case of a war.
When she was just four years of age, she manifested her deep devotion to Krishna. Meerabai watched a marriage procession in front of her residence. Once she spotted the well-dressed bridegroom and asked her mother innocently, “Dear mother, who will be my bridegroom?” Meerabai’s mother smiled, and half in jest and a half in earnest pointed towards the image of Sri Krishna and said, “My dear Meera, Lord Krishna — this beautiful fellow — is going to be your bridegroom”. Soon after, Her mother passed away. As she grew up, her desire to be with Krishna grew intensely and she believed that Lord Krishna would come to marry her. In due course, she became firmly convinced that Krishna will be her husband.
Marriage of Meerabai -
Meerabai was soft-spoken, mild-mannered, gifted, sweet, and sang with a melodious voice. She was reputed to be one of the most extraordinary beauties of her time with fame spreading to several kingdoms and provinces.
Her fame spread far and wide. Rana Sangram Singh, commonly known as Rana Sangha, the powerful King of Mewar, approached Rao Duda for Meerabai’s hand in marriage to his son Bhojraj (also known as Rana Kumbha or KumbhaRana). Bhojraj wanted to marry because of her pious nature and divine intent.
Rao Duda agreed to the union. However, Meerabai could not bear the thought of marrying someone else when her heart was filled with thoughts of Krishna. But unable to go against her beloved grandfather’s word, she finally consented to the marriage. Meerabai became the bride of Bhojraj in 1513 before she turned 14. She left for (Chittorgarh) Mewar with Bhojraj.
Devotion Reached its height -
After her household duties were over, Meera would go to the temple of Lord Krishna, worship, sing and dance before Lord Krishna Idol daily. KumbhaRana’s mother and other ladies of the palace did not like the ways of Meera, as they were worldly-minded and jealous. Her mother-in-law forced her to worship Durga and admonished her often. But she explained, “I have already given up my life to my beloved Lord Krishna’’.
Meerabai’s sister-in-law Udabai formed a conspiracy and began to defame the innocent Meera. She informed Bhojraj that Meera was in secret love with someone, She witnessed Meera talking to her lover in the temple, and that she would show him the persons if he would accompany her one night.
The ladies further raved that Meerabai, by her conduct, had brought a great slur on the reputation of the Rana family of Chittor. Bhojraj angrily ran with a sword in hand towards Meera, but as luck would have it Meera had gone to her Krishna temple.
A sober relative of the Rana counselled him, “Rana! You will forever repent for your hasty behaviour and consequences. Enquire into the allegation carefully and you will find the truth. Meerabai is a great devotee of the Lord. Remember why you sought her hand. Out of sheer jealousy, the ladies might have concocted scandals against Meerabai to incite you and ruin her’’.
Bhojraj calmed down and accompanied his sister who persistently took him to the temple at night. He opened the door, rushed inside and found Meera alone in her ecstatic mood talking and singing to the idol.
Bhojraj shouted at Meera, “Meera, show me your lover with whom you are talking now”. Meera replied, “There sits He-my Lord-the Nand Kishor who has stolen my heart”. She went into a trance. The ladies floated other rumours that Meera was mixing very freely with Sadhus. Meera was unaffected by such scandals and continued to invite Bhagat’s to join her in Krishna bhajan at the temple.
She stood unruffled in the face of accusations from the royal family. When questioned about her marital responsibilities, Meera responded that it was Krishna to whom she was married. Bhojraj was heart-broken but remained a good husband and sympathizer of Meera until his death.
Torcher began -
Rana’s relatives began persecuting Meera in various ways, even though Meera had no desire for the throne. Meera was sent a basket with a cobra inside and a message that the basket contained a garland of flowers. Meera, after meditation, opened the basket and found inside a lovely idol of Sri Krishna with a garland of flowers.
The relentless Rana (her brother-in-law) sent her a cup of poison with the message that it was nectar. Meera offered it to her Lord Krishna and took it as his prasad. It was a real nectar to her. The bed of nails that Rana sent transformed into a bed of roses when Meera reposed on it.
When the torture and scandals continued, Meera sent a letter to Goswami Tulsidas and asked for his advice. She wrote, “Simply because I am constantly tortured by my relatives, I cannot abandon my Krishna. I am unable to carry on with my devotional practices in the palace. I have made Giridhar Gopala my friend from my very childhood. I feel total bondage with him. I cannot break that bond”.
Tulsidasji sent a reply: “Abandon those who cannot understand you and who do not worship Rama or Syama, even though they are your dearest relatives.
Prahlada abandoned his father; Vibhishana left his brother Ravana; Bharata deserted his stepmother; Bali even left his Guru; the Gopasthrees, the women of Vraja, disowned their husbands to get to their Krishna. Their lives were all the happier for having done so.
The relation with God and the love of God are the elements that are true and eternal. Meera met up once again with her Guru and mentor Raidas, who is said to have lived to a ripe age of 118 years. She went into the slums often to be in the Satsang of this great teacher.
Mirabai left her palace -
The turning point in Meerabai’s life occurred when Akbar and his court musician Tansen came in disguise to Chittor to hear Meera’s devotional and inspiring songs. Both entered the temple and listened to Meera’s soul-stirring songs to their heart’s content. Before their departure, they touched the holy feet of Meera and placed a necklace of priceless gems in front of the idol as a present.
Somehow the news reached to Bhojraj that Akbar had entered the sacred temple in disguise, touched the feet of Meerabai and even presented her a necklace. The Bhojraj became furious. He told Meerabai, “Drown yourself in the river and never show your face to the world in future. You have brought great disgrace on my family”.
Meerabai obeyed the words of the King. She proceeded to the river to drown herself. The names of the Lord “Govinda, Giridhari, Gopala” were always on her lips. She sang and danced in ecstasy on her way to the river.
When she raised her feet from the ground, a hand from behind grasped her and embraced her. She turned behind and saw her beloved Giridhari. She fainted on him. After a few minutes, she opened her eyes. Lord Krishna smiled and gently whispered: “My dear Meera, your life with your mortal relatives is over now. You are free. Be cheerful.
Meerabai came to Vrindavan -
Meerabai walked barefoot on the hot sandy beds of Rajasthan. On her way, many ladies, children and devotees received her with great hospitality. She reached Brindavan (or Vrindaban). In Vrindavan, she again met Sant Raidas. She started worshipping in Govinda Mandir which has since become famous and is now a great place of pilgrimage for devotees from all over the world.
Later, Bhojraj realised his mistake and came to Vrindavan to see Meera and begged her to forgive his previous wrongs and cruel deeds. He said, “Meera please return to the kingdom and resume your role as the queen once more”. Meera said, “Krishna is only one King and my life belongs to him only”. Bhojraj, for the first time, truly understood Meera’s exalted state of mind and bowed before her in reverence. He then promptly left Vrindavan a changed soul.
The last Bhajan -
On Krishna’s Janmashtami at the temple of Krishna. There was much happiness all around in the abode of the Lord. The light of the lamps, the sound of the bhajans and the energy from the devotees’ ecstasy were filling the air.
With Tamburi in one hand and cymbals or chipla in the other, the great tapasvini was singing ecstatically with her Gopala smiling in front of her closed eyes. Meera stood up and danced with her song ‘Mere Janama Maran ke sathee’, and when the song ended, Kumbha gently approached her and requested her to come back.
Meera said, “Bhojraj ji, the body is yours and you are a great devotee, but my mind, emotions and the soul are all his. I do not know what use am I to you in this state of mind”.
Bhojraj was moved and he started singing with her in unison. Meera rose abruptly, stumbled and fell at the flowers on the feet of Giridhari. ‘Oh, Giridhari, are you calling me, I am coming’. When bhojraj and the rest were watching in awe, there was a flash of lightning which enveloped Meera and the sanctum doors closed on their own. When the doors opened again, Meera’s saree was enveloping Lord Krishna’s idol and her voice and the flute accompaniment were the only sounds that could be heard.
So many princesses and queens have come and gone. So many princesses, and queens have appeared on the stage of this world and vanished. How is it that the queen of Chittor alone is still remembered? Is this on account of her beauty? Is this on account of her poetic skill? No. It is on account of her renunciation, single-minded devotion to Lord Krishna and self-realization.
She conversed with Krishna. She ate with Krishna, her Beloved. She drank the Krishna-premarasa. She sang from the core of her heart about her unique spiritual experiences. She was indeed one of the foremost embodiments of Prema Bhakti that ever walked on earth.
